Good day, dear visitors of the blog! Fulfilling and happy relationship is impossible without sex life. Satisfaction of women in bed affects your mental balance and behaviour.
But, why in the more harmonious, at first glance, the relationship, sometimes lack the libido? In fact, the reasons of this phenomenon are more than enough. Here plays a very important role as a physiological factor, and psychological.
The lack of libido in women is not a reason to fault of the spouse. Today I will help you to understand why this happens.
During the orgasm, from a physiological point of view, there is a reduction of the uterus and the vagina, which ends with the satisfaction. Members can experience during a sexual act, one or several orgasms.
If a woman is cold in bed, do not experience any sensations, then it is called cold. Some cold women, there is complete aversion to the sexual process.
Libido - called sexual desire. Its heyday was in the late Teens or early twenties, sometimes earlier.
The sexual life of the partners originates from the wish that forms in the brain. A strong sex appears through visual images, a large part of the population is associated with romance and actions. After receiving the desire of excitement, then starts the process steps and ends with the orgasm. The more serious the problem, the more difficult the therapy.
Why is there no desire for women?
As I talk about the fact that the reasons for the lack of attraction to fall into two categories. We consider the physiological side:
- The failure of the hormonal system. It is responsible for libido hormone called testosterone. Today there is a tendency to decrease. Have the women decreased libido may be due to the influence of the hormone prolactin. The lactation in women there is a loss of attraction.
- Age-related processes. The loss or weakening of libido occurs in women during menopause. At this time, the effectiveness of the stimulation begins to fall, causing the estrogen produced in small quantities. The process is painful in the absence of lubrication. A stop in the sexual relationship, continuing to live a normal life and happy.
- Pathological condition. This includes conditions, such as diabetes, diseases of the genitourinary system, and many others.
- A way of life. Nicotine, alcohol, drugs inhibit the attraction. That affect the nerves in the brain, which are responsible for libido. The priority of the satisfaction of these habits.
- Contraction of the muscles of the vaginawhich can be painful for both partners. Often the cause of this condition is deferred to the sexual violence.
- Sexual diseases. Often create discomfort in the area of the sex organs external and the vagina.
The psychological aspect
Women often do not have any desire in relation to the previous heavy was moving situations, such as unsuccessful first sexual relations, violence, the birth of the child.
Many women who were brought up very strictly, embarrassed to open their feelings and emotions to the partner. They are afraid to seem slutty to him, etc. There are often cases in which, after marriage, women only have sex in the dark or in the clothing. Lost the desire because of hidden resentment toward our former partner.
At the beginning of Contacts, and in a first moment, relationships between people exist the interest and strong attraction. This contributes to chemical processes in the brain, giving rise to enhanced passion and desire to grow. All of this leads us to the natural sexual process without the need for activation of the desire.
Problems of identity that have arisen due to the imposed opinion of society, the parents and other people, and also as a result of the psychological trauma at the time may overlap a strong attraction to a partner. But with time, that spark is lost, and the problems come back.
The constant conflicts and disagreements between spouses that occur during a lifetime together, play an important role in the loss of sexual desire. There are people who have a lot of time to keep a grudge, because that is completely off the sexual attraction.
For a large part of the population it is important to receive compliments, flowers and gifts, even after the wedding and many years together. Women have a great need to develop the emotional part of the relationship before sexual contact. In men, this need appears after sex.
Love and sex should be in harmony. If the couple prevails more Platonic and spiritual connection, after the libido goes by the wayside and Vice versa.
Throughout the years among the people there is trust, understanding, but suffers from the intimate life. In their relationships, the people will be deprived, can be a desire of intimacy with another person, while remaining faithful to your partner.
The role of physical attraction. After the marriage of men and women have not been left to the care of themselves. You must comply with the rules of hygiene, of see my weight, hairstyle, makeup, clothing style, skin condition, etc.
In a relationship where you don't know what inspired the look, facial expression, movements, the smell of a partner is not a satisfaction. To distinguish certain parts of the DNA that create attraction between the partners. Therefore, we are more attracted sexually to people that have irregular and unusual for us style of clothing and behavior that we like a lot. But the interests and views of life among these people will not be the same.
The solution to the problem
A woman may not always understand the lack of desire. Ladies do you ask yourself many questions about how not to bring the marriage to divorce. For someone that the best solution will be to go to a psychologist or sexologist.
Specialist will research, talk with you, to consider the problem from all angles, to establish the cause of the loss of libido and find an effective way to solve this problem. This may be standard advice, different therapeutic techniques of manipulation, dance and movement actions and so on. The professional determines what the customer needs in order to function.
Treatment of reduced libido is a certain difficulty. If managed correctly to determine the cause, then you need therapy of the main diseases.
In any case, it is useful to lead a healthier life, to stop drinking alcohol, get enough sleep and stay in a peaceful state of mind. All of these actions are intended to improve the hormonal levels in a natural way. I have achieved good results in this direction, so I know whereof I speak.
It is useful to perform a set of exercises aimed at the strengthening of the PC muscles and pelvic floor muscles. Stimulates arousal by increasing the blood circulation. Also Kegel exercises can be done daily for this purpose.
And finally they find another method to get the interest in sex of a couple in a natural way. You only have to do yoga.
As you already know, all the exercises of yoga are accompanied by a deep and conscious breathing. Do before going to sleep exercises, train yourself to breathe properly, and then, the same belly breathing during intimacy, you will be amazed how it works!
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